Not for You, Rejection is God's Protection

Today in my reading I received the card "Not for you" and it took me a little bit to fully understand what was being shown to me (the other cards were part of the story). 

What I realized is that there are times that we may be influenced by our feelings, feelings about wanting something so badly or a specific "thing" or aspect of our lives that we have been working on. 

What we don't always realize is that we are being prepared for the "thing" we desire. Rejection is God's protection 🙏 

If we were to receive what we desire in the state of unpreparedness we may not handle it in a way that would provide success and this would cause unnecessary heartache and pain.

You are on the precipice of greatness don't allow a moment of immature uncontrolled lust, desire, loneliness, impatience, etc. take you away from aligning what is meant for you.

Misalignment only leads to more lessons.

Instead get quiet, grounded and tune into your feelings they are here to show you the truth of what is really going on with you and start to work on whatever comes up for you, ask your spirit team for support. 

Give yourself the time it takes to work through whatever is needed for you to ascend to a higher consciousness, and a more healed version of yourself, and you will see that in due time what you truly desire will show up looking you in your face ✨️ 

With love, 

Ms. B 

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New Moon in Taurus May 16, 2026

As a young girl, I learned to abandon myself and to create what I thought was safety externally and around me as a sense of stability by fixing, healing, and controlling, over giving, and carrying everything for everyone else.

I thought if I could keep the peace and hold it all together, love harder, give, and do more and even anticipate other people's needs then maybe I can finally relax and feel peace and safety.

As we get closer to this new moon in Taurus energy I have realized that safety and stability does not exist outside of me it is something that I have been building all along within myself and in this moment & with understanding, it changes everything.

I have finally realized that I have created stability within myself through all these years and that I now have the safety.

I'm no longer willing to abandon myself to feel love or to be in relationship with others. I no longer over function to feel chosen or seen, and no longer betray my own needs just to keep a connection.

 I have learned how to truly ground myself, trust myself and choose myself.

I’m not sharing this because I have life perfectly figured out.

Real safety is not created by controlling everything around you. It is created in those moments where you chose to not abandon yourself anymore.

Learning how to listen to your body.

Learning when your operating from fear instead of alignment.

Learning to stop betraying your needs to maintain connection. Learning that rest is safe. Boundaries are safe. Slowing down is safe. Receiving is safe.

Being myself is safe.

I’m sharing it because I know what it feels like to survive by over-giving, over-fixing, and over-carrying.

This space is where I document what I’m learning as I return home to myself.

So if you’re learning too… come sit with me.

We’ll understand ourselves together.

Ms B's Place of Understanding